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Question:
I have 4 children (under the ages of 6 years) and
I am pregnant with my fifth child, I am 7 weeks pregnant. My husband does not
wish me to have this child and told me he will leave me if I decide to have
this child. He thinks society will laugh at him for having too many children,
and tells me not to have it. What does Islam says about this? Answer : The prophet of Allah said, “there is no obedience to the creation in the disobedience to the Creator” [reported by Ahmed]
“Say
(O Muhammad SAW): "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited you from:
Join not anything in worship with Him; be good and dutiful to your parents;
kill not your children because of poverty - We provide sustenance for you and
for them; come not near to Al-Fawâhish (shameful sins, illegal sexual
intercourse,) whether committed openly or secretly, and kill not anyone whom
Allâh has forbidden, except for a just cause (according to Islâmic law). This
He has commanded you that you may understand.” (7:151)
In the tafseer of Imam Qurtubee he mentions the
tafseer on the text (kill not your children) he says;
“Some of the fuqahaa have deduced from this verse the
impermissibility of performing Azl (withdrawing the penis before
emission of semen to avoid conception) because the sperm gives birth to lineage
and withdrawing it is preventing that to happen. Thus it is similar to killing
a child except that killing by itself is more severe in sin than Azl.
This is why some of our scholars have understood Azl being
something detested, not prohibited which was also held by a group of companions
due to the saying of the prophet of Allah narrated by Judama daughter of Wahb;
‘then they asked him (prophet of Allah) about azl and
Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) replied, “that is the secret burying
alive” [reported by Muslim]”
The reason behind mentioning Azl is because if azl itself is
declared as ‘secret burying alive’ then how about killing a child for no valid
reasons? Azl itself is the first step towards the birth of a child, let alone
him being in the seventh week of progression. So, if scholars viewed azl being
haram then using excuse of seventh week is absolutely invalid.
Another issue you mentioned is that he will fear being ridiculed
by people. This is not as bad as killing a child due to fear of poverty and
that has been made haram by Allah. So, what excuse on has for mere ‘laughter’
of people? This is utter ignorance and lack of accountability for one’s actions
as Allah mentions;
‘Because of that We ordained for the Children of Israel that
if anyone killed a person not in retaliation of murder, or (and) to spread
mischief in the land - it would be as if he killed all mankind’ [5:32]
Thus, killing a soul without any Islamic reason is a grave sin and
as we have been told in a Hadith that the first actions accounted by Allah will
be related to blood (killing).
Another aspect is that the Prophet of Allah (peace be upon him)
encouraged us to marry women who can bare a lot of children so that his nation
will out number all the previous nations. This again is a blessing to have not
the opposite.
Finally, if he cannot afford or for any other reasons to have another
child then it is obligatory upon you both to use contraceptives and not become
pregnant. This is because, anything which leads to haram itself is haram. So if
by you becoming pregnant will lead to killing the child then your becoming
pregnant is haram. |
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